Slight problem?
I'm a little ticked off at my fiance. It seems like he puts his family before me. I asked him to run little favors for me and i gets huffs and puffs. His family ask hin for stuff he's jumping hurdles. We wed in Novemeber after being together for 7 years 2 of which we were engaged. When we talked about it he acts like I'm over exagerating. Is it me or him. Am I'm supposed to believe that all this will change after we say I do, while we live as man and wife.
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Fleur on
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It's not gonna change. Just because you say "I do..." and "I promise..." and "I love you..." doesn't change a person. Or their personality, or their character. They are still the same person, which is supposed to be re-assuring, the person you fell in love with is supposedly the person you marry. Confront the problem now, because, it really isn't going to change. But remember the whole "Don't critisize." deal, because you'll just send him on the defense and then any actual point you want to make is going to fall on deaf ears. |
bkro9 on
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Family is the hardest thing to deal with when married. You'll have to find a "happy" medium where you are both happy(ish?). Will things change after you're married? NO! So talk to him now. |
